How Can I Convince Myself I Belong in Leadership?

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How Can I Convince Myself I Belong in Leadership?

By Sanyin Siang | MIT Sloan Management Review | November 22, 2023

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I have just moved up to an executive job, and while I know I’m ready, I don’t feel very confident in front of my team. I was the first in my family to go to college and still carry the feeling of having to prove I belong, even though I have a track record of accomplishments at this company. How do I tamp down the impostor syndrome and feel like a leader?

Don’t beat yourself up for experiencing impostor syndrome. Some self-doubt is normal when taking on a more senior role. Instead of trying to banish it, you can transform it into something powerful as you build new relationships with your team members.

Impostor syndrome is seen as concern about our capabilities, but that concern arises from whether we feel that we belong in a particular space. Insecurity about being seen, included, and accepted is a relational issue that others on your team likely also feel at times.

One of the best antidotes for impostor syndrome, especially for someone in a leadership position, is to build a sense of belonging and community. By creating connection and fostering inclusion for others, we can also create a greater sense of belonging and confidence for ourselves. There are three practices that managers can use to increase inclusion and inspire confidence among their team members.

1. Acknowledge contributions. It can take courage for people to speak up in meetings. But when we fail to adequately recognize the speaker, or adopt their idea without giving credit, they might leave the meeting feeling unheard or unappreciated. Make a habit of acknowledging people in the moment.
2. Make good introductions. Build a sense of belonging by introducing people with some comments about their strengths, expertise, and history. Good introductions help others know the role the person plays and the value they bring, but they also reinforce the person’s sense of self and confirm their ownership of their responsibilities. It shows respect for them and confirms that they matter.
3. Emphasize superpowers. The author believes everyone has one inimitable and intrinsic gift — their superpower — and it’s important to acknowledge a person’s superpower when you see it in practice. These abilities are often invisible, undiscovered, or minimized by the individual. Many of us don’t recognize them in ourselves until a perceptive leader or colleague points them out. Helping employees see their gifts can quiet the inner voices telling them they don’t belong.

3 key takeaways from the article

1. How do I tamp down the impostor syndrome and feel like a leader?  Impostor syndrome is seen as concern about our capabilities, but that concern arises from whether we feel that we belong in a particular space. Insecurity about being seen, included, and accepted is a relational issue that others on your team likely also feel at times.
2. Some self-doubt is normal when taking on a more senior role. Instead of trying to banish it, you can transform it into something powerful as you build new relationships with your team members.
3. One of the best antidotes for impostor syndrome, especially for someone in a leadership position, is to build a sense of belonging and community. Three practices that managers can use to increase inclusion and inspire confidence among their team members are: acknowledge contributions, make good introductions, and emphasize superpowers.

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Topics:  Leadership, Teams,  Impostor Syndrome